Comments on: The elements of bonding http://colin.rantx.com/blog/2009/06/07/the-elements-of-bonding/ my blog Mon, 02 Jan 2012 15:19:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2 By: Aquila http://colin.rantx.com/blog/2009/06/07/the-elements-of-bonding/comment-page-1/#comment-17132 Aquila Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:22:11 +0000 http://colin.rantx.com/blog/2009/06/07/the-elements-of-bonding/#comment-17132 Hm...I agree that everyone has an inherent need to bond. But when the urge to bond/socialise becomes so overwhelming, I think it is just better to control that need than to forcefully and excessively attempt to bond/socialise with others. I think its sad that friends drift away, but I guess its unavoidable (unless there's a lot of effort placed by everyone). Sometimes the will to do so just dissipates. For me, when it gets to that, I'll just try to hang on to the good times as cherished memories. Hm…I agree that everyone has an inherent need to bond. But when the urge to bond/socialise becomes so overwhelming, I think it is just better to control that need than to forcefully and excessively attempt to bond/socialise with others.

I think its sad that friends drift away, but I guess its unavoidable (unless there’s a lot of effort placed by everyone). Sometimes the will to do so just dissipates. For me, when it gets to that, I’ll just try to hang on to the good times as cherished memories.

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